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Adult Children Should Ask Their Parents About Their Financial Plans

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It can feel strange for an adult child to ask their parents about their financial plans, but it is a conversation that not enough children broach. Eventually, you’re the finances of your parents will affect your own, especially if they have not created or updated their estate plan. Do they have a will? Have they set up a trust? Are there clear instructions about where they want to be buried or what they want their funeral or memorial to include? Obscure or non-existent plans can unintentionally cause painful arguments and disagreements among siblings, cousins, children, and other loved ones of the deceased, because without clear directions, no one really knows what the parent’s wishes were. Similarly, talking to parents about their financial plans and estate plans can help prepare adult children for what lies ahead, financially, for themselves.

How the Financial Plans of Parents Influence Their Adult Children

More and more adult children are paying attention to their parents’ finances, and are making day to day spending decisions, not taking on debt and limiting spending, based on the financial plans of the parents, or lack thereof, according to TIAA and reported on by Think Advisor. Confidence in the financial state and financial plans of one’s parents has much to do with age. Millennials, on average, are more confident in their parent’s finances than Gen Xers or Baby Boomers are of the financial plans of their parents, revealing what might be misguided optimism in the younger generation. The confidence of Millennials in the finances and estate plans of their parents may be a false sense of security, particularly if they believe that they will receive a large inheritance—an inheritance that they are depending on.

Conversation Starters for Talking to Parents About Estate Planning

It can take a while to get parents to open up about their financial plans and estate. Because of this, many financial planners and attorneys urge adult children to start early and simply plant the seed. Parents may open up eventually, but it can take months or even years for true dialogue on the topic of an estate plan or end-of-life arrangements. Below are some ideas about how to get the conversation going.

  • Bring up a real, or fabricated, situation that your “friend or coworker” had in which their parent passed away and no paperwork could be found. Use this example to ask if your parents have their wills and legal documents in place.
  • According to Fidelity, choosing a relaxing location during a relative moment of calm can help get your parents to open up. Talking during a crisis will hinder a real discussion because emotions will overpower the conversation.
  • Be sincere and clear with your intentions.
  • Bring up your own estate plan and ask your parents about their thoughts on it as a way to break the ice.

Call Our Pasadena Estate Planning Attorneys for Help Today

It is never too early or too late to discuss your parents’ estate plans. For professional assistance with creating or altering a will, trust, or other aspect of an estate plan, or for the administration of an estate after a parent’s death, the Maryland estate planning attorneys at Frame & Frame are here for you. Call 410-255-0373 to schedule a free consultation.

Resources:

fidelity.com/life-events/estate-planning/talking-estate-planning

thinkadvisor.com/2019/05/21/how-parents-financial-planning-influences-adult-children/?slreturn=20190712115424

https://www.frameandframelaw.com/a-marital-trust-allows-you-to-financially-protect-your-spouse-tax-free/

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